Trauma Survivors Blog

Healing isn’t always dramatic or exciting. Sometimes it feels quiet, uneventful, even a little boring and that’s actually a good sign. Boring means your nervous system is settling, your routines are holding, and you’re building a life that doesn’t need constant chaos to feel alive.

Trauma doesn’t always look like panic attacks or flashbacks. Sometimes it shows up in the little moments, like overexplaining, avoiding certain topics, or feeling restless when you try to relax. Recognizing these subtle signs is the first step toward healing.

Grounding activities work by engaging your senses to bring you back to the present moment. A texture box is a simple, hands-on way to do this using the sense of touch.

Needing comfort isn’t a flaw. It’s human. Your brain and body are wired to seek safety, connection, and support. Here’s why wanting comfort is normal, and why it doesn’t make you weak.

Ever thought, ‘My partner deserves better than me’? You’re not alone. Here’s how to handle those spirals with self-compassion, reality checks, and respect for your partner’s choice to love you.