Trauma Survivors Blog

My Journey. My Story.

“You may have been a bad chapter in my story, but you do not get to write my ending. You don’t get to decide how my story ends. I get to...

Trauma Bonding

Many people have heard the term “trauma bonding,” but it is not well understood and there are a lot of misconceptions about it. I want to...

Why Do I Love and/or Miss My Abuser?

Is something wrong with me? Nothing is wrong with you if you love and/or miss your abuser. There are any number of reasons why you could...

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Why Childhood Abuse is Never Your Fault

Many people blame themselves for the abuse that they have lived through. This is a very normal way to respond, but the fact is that abuse...

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To the Nurse Who Validated Me After I Was Sexually Assaulted

“I was sexually assaulted two nights ago. I want to get Plan B and have a blood panel ran.” That’s all I said. My tone was emotionless. I...