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You Can Understand the Abuse and Still Miss Them
One of the most frustrating parts of healing is realizing that insight doesn’t always change how you feel.
You can understand that what happened was abuse. You can name the manipulation. You can see the patterns clearly now. You can know that leaving was the right choice.
And still, you miss them.

April Goff
Jan 223 min read


Trauma Bonding
Many people have heard the term “trauma bonding,” but it is not well understood and there are a lot of misconceptions about it. I want to...

April Goff
Mar 12, 20225 min read


Why Do I Love and/or Miss My Abuser?
Is something wrong with me? Nothing is wrong with you if you love and/or miss your abuser. There are any number of reasons why you could...

April Goff
Jan 15, 20223 min read


Grooming in Adult Relationships
Grooming is a form of abuse where a person is manipulated into isolation and dependence on the groomer, which allows them to be...

April Goff
Nov 12, 20218 min read


Why People Stay in Abusive Relationships
When it comes to people staying in abusive relationships, I have heard a lot of snap judgments about it.

April Goff
Oct 30, 20219 min read
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