Coping with Flashbacks
Flashbacks can be overwhelming, but there are ways to manage them in the moment.
If you want to learn more about why flashbacks happen, visit our [Flashbacks page].
This page focuses on practical coping strategies to help you feel safe and grounded again.
Quick 5-4-3-2-1 Method (Tailored for Flashbacks)
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5 things you can see (remind yourself of where you are now)
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4 things you can touch (feel the texture of your chair, your clothes, a blanket. Really focus on the texture. Is it soft? Rough? Hard? Cold?)
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3 things you can hear (listen for soft background sounds. If there aren't any noises, if you're up to it. Make some. Play a video, a song, comfort sounds, etc)
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2 things you can smell (or imagine a comforting scent or even spray a scent or smell something scented like a perfume sample, tea bag, etc)
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1 thing you can taste (take a sip of water or hold a mint)
Why it helps: Brings attention to the present moment using your senses.
Temperature Shifts
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Hold an ice cube or splash cold water on your hands
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Wrap yourself in a warm blanket or use a heating pad
Why it helps: Sudden changes in temperature grab your brain’s attention and interrupt the flashback spiral.
Safe Object or Comfort Item
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Keep a grounding object (smooth stone, fidget, or soft fabric) nearby
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Focus on its texture and weight as a reminder that you’re here and safe
Why it helps: Touching something familiar anchors you to the present.
“Name the Now” Exercise
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Say out loud: your name, the date, your location, and one thing you can see
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Repeat: “I am safe. This is just a memory. It cannot hurt me now.”
Why it helps: Speaking and thinking actively reminds you that the danger isn’t real in this moment.
Move Your Body
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Stand up, stretch, walk around, or stomp your feet
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Light movement can break the freeze response that often comes with flashbacks
After
After a flashback, your body may feel tense or drained. Taking care of yourself is important:
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Drink water or tea to rehydrate
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Take a shower or wash your face to reset your senses
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Journal or draw to process what you’re feeling
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Reach out to a trusted person or support system if you need connection
Final Tip
Flashbacks are not a sign of weakness.
They are a natural response to trauma, and using coping strategies is an act of strength.
With practice, these moments become more manageable.
You can see our general grounding page here for more ideas
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